Frequently Asked Questions


What is a pastoral counselor?

Pastoral Counselors are dedicated to the healing of the mind, spirit and human relationships through the integration of spiritual values and behavioral sciences. Regardless of the particular orientation that one’s belief system may have, there is a spiritual dimension to everyone’s life, and that dimension is intrinsically associated with one’s physical, mental, emotional, and relational health. (Add link to Articles: What is a Pastoral Counselor.)

Why do people decide to come for pastoral counseling?

People decide to come to a pastoral counselor because they are anxious, or otherwise troubled, about some condition in their life. The decision could be prompted by a generic sense of meaningless or, it may be more specific as with the quality of their marriage or family relationships. The transition stages of life prompt people to invest their energies into discovering new sources of meaning and purpose. Others are motivated to discern how God is acting in their lives and how they might find a meaningful response. Ultimately, people come because life is important and they experience some level of personal pain.

Will you try to convert me to your beliefs?

No. Pastoral counseling is a matter of your spiritual journey, your belief system, and how they intersect with your spiritual and emotional well-being. Most people seek a pastoral counselor because they want someone to respect their individual values and to take a holistic view of life that integrates body, mind, and spirit. Human beings, when moving forward in life, search for meaningful existence. Meaningful existence is the essence of one’s spiritual journey.

How do I know you can help me with my concerns?

When you call, I will ask you some questions about your reasons for seeking therapy. I will also answer your questions. If we both believe that I might be able to help you, I will suggest that we try to work together to achieve your goals.

What if I am getting a divorce, will your beliefs about marriage get in the way?

My goal in working with persons who are going through a divorce is to work towards a thoughtful process. I tell folks, “When you look back at this event five years from now, you need to know that you did what you could and made your decision clearly and thoughtfully.” I am committed to marriage, at the same time, I realize that not all marriages can continue. Ultimately, the decision is yours. I am there to work with you and your needs during the challenging times.

How much do you charge?

The fee for a fifty minute session is $100. However, my way of working with people is different than the usual. For the most part, I meet with people every other week for the first two sessions. After that we meet monthly. The first month, your costs will be $200.00 or $50.00 per week and after the first two sessions it will be $100.00 per month or $25.00 per week. If you are unable to afford my full fee, please call or email me to discuss your situation. While I do not have a sliding scale, I do what I am able to be helpful.

Do you work with children?

Yes, on a limited basis. I meet with children to learn where they are in the family process and how they contribute to the anxiety that has prompted counseling. For the most part, I then work with the parent(s) to help them manage the situation.

What means of payment do you accept?

I accept checks, cash, and credit or debit cards (Visa, Mastercard, and Discover).

Do you take insurance?

I am not a participating provider for any insurance companies.

Do you have evening hours or weekend hours?

Yes. Preferably evenings but I can be available on Saturdays.

How many sessions will to take for me to achieve my goals?

Change takes time. The number of sessions will depend on your work outside the sessions. During intense times, it is best if we meet every two weeks. During times when you are able to work outside the sessions, on your own, monthly sessions provide you with ways to think about yourself amidst the challenges and do the work you need to do.

What if my wife/husband will not come and we need help in our marriage?

One person, changing self, over time, can make a difference. When one person changes self, while keeping the focus on self, there will be change in the marriage.

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What if I have anxiety, depression, or another health condition that requires medication?

If you presently have a physician, with your permission, I will consult with your primary care provider as a means of coordinating care. If it is determined, during the course of your counseling that medication would be beneficial, I can refer you to a psychiatrist who can assess your needs.